Strictly Sex...

So I had a mini group discussion a couple days ago with a group of friends and the question came up "Why do males think strictly sex?". It became a thought that played in my mind for a couple days because me as a male, I see women that use sex or their bodies to get them further then other females. It's just that us men look as the women's physique as a whole new galaxy, from the hair, to the lips, to the breast and the hips. It's always a fantasy when a physical attraction gets strong between the opposite sex. It's not strictly sex but its just a thought or if the signs is only being read as only sex, the thought is going to become strictly sex. Their are many men that care for every female they come encounter with. They just wait patiently to have sexual intercourse. Their are others that use their witty ways to swindle those gullable females out of their victoria secret's. But at the sametime women question us why we think of "strictly sex", the same thought be on their minds also. Some ladies I know say they keep it this way so they won't have their feelings hurt, some say they're just addicted to sex but scared of commitment and others that are in relationships say that's the only time they do not argue. Those promiscuous ones just basically keep it sexual 24/7, but its times when everyone who is sexually active just want to have sex and keep it pushing, Now That's Keeping 100...

Imma Do It...

So I listen to Fabolous new album everyday, I mean i got the songs on my phone, on my laptop, and on my Ipod. Most of my friends just say its because "I'm From Brooklyn". Honestly speaking the album is a hit from Brooklyn or not. I take time out to listen to different music everyday, I critique music from NY to Japan, good music is good music to my ears. So back to the album, it's one particular song that sticks out everytime I listen to it called "Imma Do It" featuring LA Lakers Star Player Kobe Bryant. This song has a lot of meaning behind it because it shows that everyone has to do things to strive for better in their own lives. It starts off

"The block got my back
And my boys do too
And my big mama trippin said she need more loot
Every block, Every hood, Every ghetto got beef
I got a heater on my lap
And another in the back
She hassels her coke with all this stress on me
Erybody and there mama callin fed's on me
I don't know what
I'm a do but I'm a Do It (I'm a Do It)
Look I don't know what I'm a do but I'm a Do It (I'm a Do It)
I got money on my head but I'm ridin in a drop, (drop), drop, (drop), drop, (drop), drop, (drop)"

Showing the pains that people would have to go through living in the "hood", dealing with all aspects of living in the "hood" I didn't have to deal with all these pains cause my family always told me to watch take heed and never do what someone before has done. I always had a very observent eye and always spoke to the older guys to learn from their mistakes. Anything in life, any obstacle I go through imma have to do it....

Imma Do It

Problems getting my young guy friend to like me...

Ok, so for my very 1st post 2 very dear friends of mine wanted to share a story about trying to get the attention of to young males who are mature but have the same aspects of being childish when they are together. I'll just name the ladies Ms. K & Ms. R.

Ms. K has a little crush on guy #1. He's smart, funny, tall, cute and has the swagger of a real Brooklyn guy she adds. He shows her attention and all but at the same time he shows all the females around him attention she states. She wants to be his one and only on campus but can't seem to get his mind off of being a flirt. She wonders if he is scared of commitment or if he is scared that she being an older women that she'll just keep him seperated from those females who just want his attention and wants his "Goods". She just wants him to know that he can speak to other females but she wants to be him main girl on campus.

Ms. R on the other hand flirts back and fourth with guy #2. He's strongly structure physically, nice smile and can dress. He shows her all the attention that she wants but at the sametime she doesn't want to be hurt or just used. Guy #2 always seems to show her that he wants to be her man to be here for here but Ms. R brushes him off.

I know both guys and help do alittle investigation for my friends, and feel that these couples could have a definite connection for the future. They both click emotionally and needless to say they show that they want each other, they just can't find a way to make everything stick like glue. I play middle man in this flirtasious tug of war because I help both sides get closer to reaching a solidize relationship. I can't force the relationship on them if they don't want it themselves.....